The Autism Society Event and Education Recordings Archive

The session will be divided into an Introduction, Conclusion and three "Acts":

ACT I: THE BIRTH OF TRUST AND VULNERABILITY

Trust and vulnerability are things every human shares upon entering the world -- regardless of disability. However, we eventually begin to observe how vulnerability becomes more apparent for individuals on he autism spectrum. Autistic individuals may (or may not) recognize this early on, but regardless of our ability to identify our vulnerability, it can affect our handling of vulnerability and capability to trust in ourselves and the people surrounding our lives -- even those closest to us.

Talking points will include:

• Defining trust and vulnerability. Even individuals on the autism spectrum can recognize these concepts and we can recognize when we feel hurt. Also, due to our unique sensory wiring, intense emotions for individuals with autism can become so overwhelming to process that it can influence our capability to trust.
• Cultivating the art of unconditional love. Can we trust in what we want to believe, even without explicit communication that we are appreciated and loved? Even when we are not entirely sure how our loved ones (on and off the autism spectrum) perceive us, when we believe in presumed competence we will empower ourselves.

ACT II: THE DEATH OF TRUST AND VULNERABILITY

In the second installment, we will explore into what can happen when our vulnerability is taken advantage of and how it particularly affects individuals on the autism spectrum. I will also share my own personal story as a survivor and what steps I have taken towards my healing process in hopes that it can also be helpful for other survivors.

Talking points will include:

• "Under the Radar": what we currently know about autism and sexual abuse (research and studies).
• A brief overview of 8 unique barriers that individuals on the autism spectrum face regarding sexual abuse and sexual assault. Each item will be supported by examples.
• The "Aftermath": Managing grief, trauma, the process of letting go, and recognizing your self worth.

ACT III: THE RESILIENCE OF TRUST AND VULNERABILITY

In the final installment, we will go over a short list of essentials for cultivating healthy relationships. Although I will be using examples from my own romantic relationship, these can also apply toward platonic relationships.

Other talking points will include:

• The importance of emotional connection. A healthy relationship is not just practicing communication skills, conflict strategy and "relationship toolkits". It also requires emotional connection.
• Trust: science or art (or both)?
• Why we often "play it safe".
• The risks (and rewards) of admitting we are vulnerable.
• Re-defining trust and vulnerability.

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While this presentation will include supported citations from empirical studies, this presentation will not be scientific oriented. Rather, it will focus more on a "TED Talk" style -- exploring into our self-identities and learning to embrace the vulnerability within ourselves as a tool for empowerment.

**A more detailed content plan can be provided if requested for proposal review**