Teachers receive thorough training on the IEP process while pursuing a special education degree, yet the subject of parent/teacher relationships often garners only a cursory review. It is only when the teacher is in the classroom that he/she begins to understand the true impact of this important relationship.
Effective, regular parent/teacher communication is a means of increasing the likelihood of student success (Montgomery, 2005). When considering a student with special needs, the importance of an effective parent/teacher relationship is magnified. Although the relationship has been created by law through IDEA where both are the child’s team members, parents and teachers might not fully understand how to maintain a regular relationship that benefits the child.
The intensity of ASD makes demands on parents and teachers. Silva and Schalock (2012) found that stress is four times greater for parents with a child in the autism spectrum as compared to parenting typical children; and it is twice as stressful to parent a child with autism as compared to other developmental delays. Teachers experience more job-related stress than other professionals; and special educators leave the field in greater numbers than general educators because of stress (Williams and Poel, 2006). With this in mind, both the parent and the teacher can be supports for one another as they strive for a sturdy relationship.
Parent/teacher communication is as individual as the child, yet core requisites need to be met. No longer do parents and teachers have to hope that a hit-or-miss method will create teamwork. The relationship can be intentionally built and made to custom fit the parent and teacher.
The teaching tools (handouts) consist of:
- Parental Guidelines for Communicating with Teachers
- Teacher Guidelines for Communicating with Parents
- Evaluation of Current Parent/Teacher Communication Methods
- A Model for Effective Parent/Teacher Communication
- Individualized Communication Strategy
Successful parent/teacher communication can be planned and methodical within the array of different settings and personality styles. No one has to hope for the relationship to click or be disappointed if the “click” does not happen. Planned, effective communication between the parent and teacher supports the best possible learning environment for the student. In this information age, parents and teachers can tap into multiple communication options; but the best plan is to have a plan.
REFERENCES
Montgomery, D. (2005). Communicating without harm: Strategies to enhance parent-teacher communication. Teaching Exceptional Children, 37(5), 50-55.
Silva, L. & Schalock, M. (2012). Autism parenting stress index: Initial psychometric evidence. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 42(4), 566-574.
Williams, K. & Poel, E. (2006). Stress management for special educators: The self-administered tool for awareness and relaxation (STAR). Teaching Exceptional Children Plus, 3(1), 2.
Margaret Oliver, M.Ed.
Intervention Specialist; Columnist,
Akron Public Schools
Margaret Oliver is an advocate for students with autism spectrum disorder. As a teacher, parent and columnist for Autism Asperger's Digest, she is dedicated to supporting and learning from parents and professionals with the goal of helping the child reach his/her full potential.