The Autism Society Event and Education Recordings Archive

Each sibling brings a very individual perspective. Cameron has just graduated from high school and is looking forward to college and new experiences. His Asperger Syndrome was diagnosed when he was in 2^nd grade and has much affected his relationships with his siblings. His early years were spent forming very few relationships with others- including his siblings They will each discuss how when they joined the school band- Cam’s special interest is music and musical instruments- they finally had an area of shared interest and a doorway to a relationship. Those relationships that started out so narrowly based have grown over the years.

Jordan’s autism diagnosis brought different struggles as he was much delayed in his developmental stages and came to rely on his older brother Craig to learn many social and physical skills. His early life was filled with First Steps therapists in the home 5 days a week. Those talented therapists did a wonderful job of utilizing his siblings in their therapy sessions, to not only foster social interaction but also to give a feeling of inclusion for his siblings. For example, occupational therapy was known as “Cooking With Faith” to the kids and that inclusiveness has continued to be a favorite time shared between the siblings.

Jamie brings with her the challenges of not only being the only girl, but also having ADHD. This was not always easy for her as Jordan was placed in her class for advanced math work in elementary school. As interventions were adapted to better suit her, she came into her own through self-advocacy. She speaks passionately about bullying and takes it on with an honesty that has earned her respect as she speaks at autism awareness programs at her school and at workshops and conferences where her family presents. She will share the power of actions and words not only for those on the spectrum, but for their family members and others as well.

Craig carries a different responsibility as the ‘big brother’ of an adoring younger brother with autism as well as the younger brother to a sibling with Asperger's. He has carried a large load, and shares his successes and frustrations in a passionate and often humorous way. Craig has found ways to include Jordan in appropriate activities and has shared his interest in golf, fishing, video games and cooking. His musical talent has led him to join his older brother in the local youth symphony.  

Participants in this session will see the work it takes as siblings to deal with ASD in the family, but that by working together, the quality of sibling relationships can be remarkable. These four young people are dedicated to helping others along the path to understand that family relationships are possible and can even thrive within a family that includes autism spectrum disorders.